CAN you recall the last time you were inspired to do something?Have you experienced that feeling of being so motivated to complete a difficult project at work? What about the time when you went the extra mile for your children because you just wanted the best for them?
Such is the power of inspiration. We can do the same for our children. As parents, we want them to achieve their fullest potential. We also want them to enjoy the process of getting there. Forcing them to do something may be the quickest way to get things moving, but what happens when we stop pushing? A better strategy is to inspire them to achieve their dreams.
Like many things, inspiration begins at home. We can start by discovering our children’s potential. Discover their interests, strengths and weaknesses. Find their passion. Finally, remove all barriers for them to maximise their potential.
Let them dream big. Imagination and children are inseparable. They can be whatever they want to be and nobody, including parents, can stop them. Just spend time to watch, or better still, join them at play. You’ll discover how they can turn almost anything into a toy. A piece of cloth can become a beautiful dress. A pot cover can become a steering wheel. Living room cushions can become a sturdy fort.
KEEP THEM EMPOWERED
Unfortunately, as they grow older, their imaginative power diminishes as they are introduced to the “real world”. They will come across people who say, “You can’t do this” or “That’s impossible!” These “real people” could be anyone — friends, relatives, teachers, grandparents, and, parents.
In short, they’re being bound by an “invisible rope” that slowly limits their imagination and, eventually, their potential. We must remove this rope from our children. As parents, it’s one of our biggest duties to cut all such ropes so they can unleash their power. We cannot let them be like those who’ve given up on their dreams. Instead, we must ensure that our children are on track to deliver their fullest potential.
As they grow older, empower them to be themselves. Stay calm when things fall short of expectations. Criticising and complaining will not help; it is the fastest way to undermine their confidence and erode their motivation. In fact, these negative words may become the very rope that tightens our children even more.
Inspire them with your love and positive actions. Be their number one supporter. Push them to try harder and go further. Cut the rope and let them unleash their power!
Zaid Mohamad coaches and trains parents to experience happier homes and more productive workplaces. Reach him at zaid@smartparents.com.my