LETTERS: Recently, we have read about tragedies due to violence involving people in relationships.
In Klang, a man reportedly slashed his wife and then hurt himself after a disagreement. The episode happened in their car while they were heading to a restaurant.
Another incident was on the Penang Bridge when a couple in a car were seen quarrelling before they both ended up falling into the sea. Luckily, they were saved by a passer-by.
It is worrying that arguments between couples, young or old, are getting increasingly violent. No doubt, many may feel cornered, humiliated and misunderstood when tempers flare during an argument. And this often leads to impulsive reactions that spiral out of control.
Arguments are normal in any relationship. Thus, couples need to be aware of the warning signs. When limits are breached, it would be wise for one person to withdraw from the confrontation.
Remember, giving in does not mean you are weak or a loser. Words spoken in a fit of anger cannot be taken back, they can break relationships and destroy lives.
Refrain from talking when you are angry. Resolve issues amicably and most importantly, always think of the consequences which are bound to involve more than one person.
SAMUEL YESUIAH
Seremban, Negri Sembilan
The views expressed in this article are the author's own and do not necessarily reflect those of the New Straits Times